A Trip to Remember!!!

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I visited Dalhouise way back in March,2017 when I was a little less lazy as you can probably make out that I am posting this after almost 3 months.

Day 1
24th march
We reached the hotel Around 10 in the morning. We were staying at “Mohan Palace”.
Tired, cranky, sweaty and Hungry The first thing we did was have our breakfast. After hours of traveling Shower was a Must.
It was the first time I was traveling alone, Initially before departing I had these second thoughts in the back of my head, whether I would have fun or not as it my first Tour Alone. None of my friends could go. I decided to go alone with other 30 strangers, not practically strangers These were the kids from my college just from other department.
So where was I?
The schedule for that day was to Visit the WaterFall.
There were these activities and things to shop and eat there and yes How could i forget “Clicking Pictures”, this list at the top of list of Perks of being a Girl.
Then The Driver dropped us at The St’ Francis Church, The last time I visited the church was when we visited Mumbai.
Visiting such places is very peaceful sometimes.
Our day ended at the Mall Road, which was way much worse than my expectations.

Day 2
I slept so well the other night, after the breakfast We left for Khajjiar, it was such a beautiful and peaceful place i have seen in my life till date.
The first song which came to my mind was ” Ye haseen waadiyam ye khula aasman, aagye hum kaha ye khoobsurat jahan.”
In the matter or heart and brain, one should always listen to The Heart. I am glad I listened to Mine, if i had not come for this trip, i would have missed sitting on the grass on a gloomy day with the perfect view.
Then there I met this girl, and the more i got to know her, the more i felt this connection and I Realised that one day you meet someone for inexplicable reason, you feel more connected to this stranger than anyone else. Perhaps this one person, this stranger sent to you for some higher purpose, to keep you safe during a period of time. As the person exits your life. They will be a stranger to you once more.
I am always content with my own company, though i’m glad that i met some great people on this trip. One thing I learned for sure is that There are different kind of humans, all of them beautiful in their own way and sometimes you have to adjust with them whether if you like it or not.
My bucket list is quite long and one of them came true, actually two.
Eating Maggie on a freezing day sitting on one of the highest mountain.
Then DJ night happened, we girls got all dolled up, looking pretty and we all do these mostly for the sake of getting clicked.
It sounds quite cliche though. We danced a lot, ate a lot and had fun too.

DAY 3
The day for our Checkout, we left in the noon for PathanKot and made a stop for Movie. Phillaury it was, which now is included in the lists of movies I can watch anytime and every time.
And now finally traveling back Home, sitting in the Bus Writing my Diary Entry, I realised that I’m glad to came to this Trip. Explored so many things, made new friends and so much more.

Let the mountains Set you free!!

 

 

 

THE PERFECT DRESS

We went looking for a wedding dress on sunday. Laughing, we made for the door of the Bridal couture . We have been looking out for the perfect gown in every store. Having witnessed other brides and their Friends, we vowed to be happy in these moments. Weddings are supposed to bring all relatives together,but only in our case it wasn’t. Few days later, there she stood, in the dress of her dreams. That moment I whispered in her ear that ” You are the girl that i’ve been dreaming of, ever since i was a little girl.”

Love: An irresistible Emotion!!

Okay!! So this is a Late valentine’s Day Post, Whenever someone talks about Love the only thing that comes to our mind is the Romantic Love, so let’s remember all kinds of Love.
Love is drinking the first sip of coffee on an early Sunday morning, love is gazing at the moon on gloomiest of days, Love is the way that you and your siblings laugh until your tummy hurts. Love is going out for dinner with you family. Love is the way that Season change. Of course there is a romantic love, it’s the way that you partners hand touches you or hugs you and thousands of electric impulses flows through your body when u stare at each other. It’s about staying Up all night talking about anything and everything because you don’t wish to say goodnight.
Love is when you look in the mirror and smile, It’s about helping someone, Love is self care, Love is eating that extra Bite of Donut.
Romantic love will come in time and you don’t need to rush for it, it will come ,when it does and it will be so worth it. So it is pointless to cling and mourn. Because no matter how much you cling on to the past, when you look at it, It’s already Gone!!
Hence, whatever emotions sum Up the perfect ideology for Love I can say that Love is Give and Get Not Give And Take!!

Home away From Home!!

I don’t exactly remember the day, date or Time… one always doesn’t have to be Precise, but i can say that In the heat of a moment I Realised I had found a Family Outside my Family i.e My PG mates and those of college. It is so strange that people grow close to each other in no matter of time. Irrespective of their roots,where they come from or How they are?
During the beginning of My First Semester, my initial days in the outside world Alone , My Mom and Sister used to tell me stuff, about people, about how things work and how you have to make them work.
They have always taught me to Throw Good vibes. But once my Mother said that “Sometimes your light attracts Moths, and your warmth attracts parasites. Protect your space and energy.
I shall always remember these things, I ought to.
I was a bit lost somewhere down the road, but as they say Sometimes Lost is exactly where you are meant to be. Because in that process i found THEM. My definition of THEM doesn’t include a whole bunch of people, just few of my PG mates and Those of college. Happiness can be found in the darkest of time, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
In the coming future, i will have a bunch of memories to cherish like a Jewellery.
” Home is where the Heart Is”
This old saying Finally made sense to me that Home is where your heart is comfortable…

A New Year, A New Start And A Way To Go!!

2016 went by in a jiffy!!

So did the New Year’s eve party. I couldn’t get the time to write on the first day of New Year. I am not going into 2017 saying ‘Please be kind to me’.

Because I have learned the fact that world doesn’t care about what you beg for, it will continuously knock you down to the place where it feels like you’ve forgotten how to walk, but it’s up to you , will you stay on the ground or not?

So Dear 2017

It does not matter if you are kind to me or not.

As i will still do what I need to get done and be the person I’ve always wanted to become!!

Here’s to a more fun, powerful and full of love 2017!!

 

TAKE A LEAP OF FAITH

There are many surprising perks of being Single. Most days, I don’t think about love too much. I enjoy my life, I have a life that let’s me express myself, I live with my friends I adore and i get to eat really good food whenever I feel like it…. Well Life Ain’t Bad, It’s Fucking Awesome!!
But sometimes i find my friends walk into one relationship after another and i feel like how easily it comes for them. How is it that they can find a new Boyfriend or Girlfriend every year? And i believe that most people just fool themselves into thinking that they are in Love. Some say that falling in love is like taking a leap of faith, trusting someone to the extreme level. But what they don’t say is that being single is like that too.
It’s like taking a leap of faith with yourself, which makes it even more scarier. Because you have to hold your own hand in the dark. You have to be the person that you’ve been looking your whole life. You have to trust yourself, risk yourself and to become all those things you wanted to!!!

UNCONDITIONALLY

He came and then he left. She found a way to live without him, to smile without him, to move forward without him – she had to and she did. She didn’t resent it. She didn’t resent him. She never resented love. Yet, she thought of him every single day.

She smiled to herself when she saw parts of him in others. It became a part of her which she had initially fought.  Sometimes, when the longing she kept so strictly to her heart, she let her pillow absorb her tears. And then, she went on with her life.

She kept him close, but stayed afar from him. She missed their conversations –  silly and beautiful – but she never really talked to him ,knowing somewhere that they each held a special place in the other’s life. She never spoke of it and time passed. Life wasn’t bad.

Yet, she always thought of her life in two parts – Before Him and After Him. The time In Between was now a phase she had framed in her mind  – a lifetime in itself. She would look through these frames, wanting to touch those memories.

She thought that she would never love again, never the same way.
You see, she had realized that what she kept in her heart was a mere memory. She loved, even worshiped that memory, but she realized he wasn’t real in them anymore.

Until one day.
She dreamed of him, just like so many other times.  It was nothing special, really. He was just there in it. Looking up his number, she typed a message but didn’t send it.

Because she realized at that moment, on that day, that her love for him was unconditional. She did not need to be with him, to touch him. She did not need for him to be in love with her. She realized that the time  she had spend  wanting him – she was not chained to feeling that way.

In that realization, she wrote, “I miss you” in her Diary. It was not an act of need this time.  Yet, it was all she felt. She felt tides of emotion break against her  heart. The pillow lay there  while her tears found their way to it.

Maybe she realized she did not need to want him. What she felt for him was not bound by anything anymore.
She put aside her phone and sighed. She felt herself getting light headed.
As she lay there with a smile on her face and her love set far and free, she was at peace.Unconditionally.